BDSM innate or learnt behaviour? Maybe both!.
deno, 19 Oct 2005 19:14:19
Have read medical opinion that there is an inborn disposition awakened or
developed by life experience.
This sounds like my own case as in childhood was subject to Edwardian
punishment spankings for quite trivial offences like not eating up food! My
parents passed on the way they were disciplined by their Victorian parents. The
latter would, of course, be arrested today!
At about age 5 I was alone in a wood and had a sudden urge to chastise
myself and as I remember dreams involving punishment by a beautiful woman started
about that time.
When I was 12 and 13 I was twice nearly hanged so another lifelong fantasy
was superimposed on the original.
Was not very happy about a situation I could not eradicate and read books by
Sigmund Freud who mentioned cases similar to mine.
This is why I said those films or similar can affect some people as from
experience I know!
However my fantasy role is that of the victim. Am I a minority of one or
are there others like me?
Yours
deno
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